Electronic communication (email, texting, social networking) seems to get a bad rap as being cold and impersonal. I have always disagreed with that thought, believing instead that it makes the world a smaller place by allowing instant connection with those we love, anywhere in the world, at anytime. The truth is, communication in any form is as personal or as impersonal as you make it.
This email, received from a soul mate after our annual Christmas dinner and ornament exchange (something we’ve been doing, and loving, since 1983), is as personal and as touching as anything I’ve ever received. I will keep it forever as a reminder of the deep, abiding and treasured friendships - near and far - that so bless my life.
I share it with you, with love at Christmas. In this holy season, tell your friends how much they mean. Life does move on, and much too quickly to let these moments just pass by.
Dear Friends,
Yesterday my mom buried her best friend, Pat. They were suite mates in college. Five of them Jo Anne (mom) Peggy, Pat, LaRue and Diana, went to Hardin Simmons together and have eaten, shopped and traveled together for the last 53 years. I drove Mom and Dad to Georgetown for the funeral and ended up chauffeuring the ladies around.
I listened as they laughed at each other. Peggy and LaRue got lost coming from Lubbock; their trip took an extra hour and a half. They were stopped by police going home and called and said they had never seen so many police cars. Diana's dog kept barking at everyone. LaRue's slip had to be pulled up every time she got out of the car…
I listened as they reminisced with each other. How Pat was a perfectionist, Peggy picked out her earrings first and would then find an outfit to match, Diana was boy crazy, Peggy never had enough money with her.
I listened as they complained about arthritis, pinched nerves, old husbands, crazy children.
I listened as they cried and comforted each other over the loss of their dear friend. The whole time I was there I thought of you, my dear friends. I just wanted to tell each of you how thankful I am for you, I can think of no one I would rather laugh, reminisce, complain, comfort and cry with. I am so blessed to go through this life with my sweet friends.
I
Love You.
Merry Christmas,
Paula
P.S.
We all need to get a facebook!
